The Fatherhood effect👨‍👧

DAD - "A daughter's first love"
Father's love is equally important for a child as like mother's.

When i gave our baby in his hands, I saw the various forms of happiness in his face. He was afraid to hold the little one &just watching her face as a miracle.
The fact is ,during initial days of delivery , there is not much a father can do, other than supporting me in everyways.
When the family shrinks into three, that is just us,actually i understood his love and care for the baby. He did the best to keep me and baby happy. Eventhough, the job was tiring, he found some time to spent with the little one everyday.
Play with her, read to her, cook for her, take a walk with her, click pictures with her are his little new favourites.

Parenting styles of both mother & father are very much different.
Mothers are usually being more nurturing in their relationship with children, fathers tended to be more involved in preparing children to deal with life. Both are equally important.

By saying all nice things, let me dive into some pressures being a father.Some share their pressures , some others show their pressures through their anger and some never think as this as pressures. Do you think todays fathers are not under pressure? A big NO....

• Not getting enough ME time
• Job pressure
• Less patience in looking after baby
• Relationship with wife
• Miss hangouts with friends

But above all, the smile ,the need of pamper, and little one coming all way calling " Dad" makes everything worth rather than silly pressures.

Yes, fatherhood includes financial and emotional support. Definitely it is a big responsibility to take care of the needs of the family. Take it in a positive way and all your pressure will vanish. And in the end,every day is a new learning & everything is worth. 
Enjoy fatherhood👍

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