Happy messy mom

Do you think, being best life partners helps in being good parents? Partnership is all about teamwork. Both have the same goal, a happy & healthy child. There will be a big influence on the child ,when they see how the parents are interacting. Working as a team doesnt mean you will never disagree. Both Mother& Father are the individuals, who came from the different surroundings, with different ideas & skills. Secrets of being best partners in parenting: • Communication - whether you agree or     disagree on your partner's decision,just   communicate & share your thoughts • Respect each other's decisions • Give some break to both at times • Listen to understand • Dont forget to appreciate each other • Try to understand the different parenting styles of both ( we are also trying😁) Both mother & father go through various situations in which they have to adjust, after the birth of the child. But, at the end, everything is for our...

Have you ever felt sad, angry or irritated if something does not worked out as per our plan? I am sure, there will be more YES,,, Being a MOM, we make many plans for our child. Some plans will work out and some others will not. The main and important thing to know that, every plans never work out for all children. Every child is unique,,,their likes& dislikes,,,.As a parent, we should not implement or force our plans on them,,they will learn at the right stage of their life. But, what we can do is, just support them, help them & create an atmosphere for them to learn. Being a Mom, we must always try new things, if something is not working with our child. The "something" mentioned above may be, a type of food, a type of feeding accessories, or a type of toys.It can be anything related to them. Never be down, if they did not like at first,,, there are some small tricks we can try,, • Food cases : Try in new textures • Feeding accessories : Try new with some ...

Have you ever given a thought of taking better care of yourselves after being a mom? Soon after the delivery, the main focus of everyone is our child.That is obvious.  Right? Everyone may forget to ask how you are doing. ( i dont know about c-section). Newmother's usual schedule will be like Busyfeeding, diaper change,sleepless nights,back pains. Most of the time, we forget to take care about ourselves. Is that will make you a better mom? Definitely No,,,, The definition of SELF CARE is different for every moms. Some like a relaxing spa, some like sleeping,some like to talk with friends, & some other like just to sit alone for sometime. Honestly, i am in the last category, where i simply want to sit quiet for sometime. We, moms,always make self care as the last priority. But it could be doing more harm than good for you as well as baby. Benefits of Self care: • Physically strong • Emotionally strong • Happy mom equal to happy baby and   happy family Self...

Do you remember your baby's favourite toy & favourite book ? Toys and Books plays a major role in children for the optimal growth and learning.Children can explore the world by providing them variety of toys and books. When they are infant,they may not understand anything,but they will definitely sense them. Toys are just the beginning of the child’s learning process. Some love having things to touch, & some others put in their mouth. Her favourites are: • Soft toys : Provide comfort, but make sure , they are made from safe materials. As they grow up, they talk with them, cuddle them. (Especially for girls).  • Teethers with music : It really gives soothing for babies during teething stage. It definitely comes in various colours and shapes along with music to entertain the baby. • Elephant toys : Ease of holding and         bright coloured makes them attractive for   babies. When they grow up, they can  ...

There are lot of definitions for the term " Patience ". But i feel patience in motherhood is little different. Patience is all about waiting,right?Do you think, the same definition goes for patience in Motherhood? Definitely, No. Before being a MOM, there are some days, where i get angry & irritated if things dont work out easily or on time. Peace may not be there throughout the day. This was me, not having enough patience. But motherhood changed me a lot. There will be lot of moments with child, where the chance of loss of patience is more. Remaining calm is not an easy thing for every parents.Some may react, some may yell at children and it goes on.The peace is how we deal the situation, knowing their struggles too. Children also goes through various changes and development in their life.Some days, they will have tantrums, & some other days ,they will not be interested in foods.Like us, they will also have their own mood swings. By being frustrated, Just un...

DIAPER BAG - New moms best friend Hey new moms, have you heard of diaper bag before delivery? Before having a baby, i definitely not heard of this bag. I know for sure, i have to carry the items in the bag but definitely not this term "diaper bag" . Diaper bags are the one that is dedicated solely to the essentials of your child. They are life saver in stressful situations ,when your baby needs something right away. Why i choose diaper bag over normal bag? • Can keep things organized and have lot of specific pockets,so it is easy to find things inside. • Can Easily be wiped clean, if any mess • Outer packets are insulated for keeping bottles warm and convenient tissue pockets • Hands - free backpacks are very much comfortable. • Both mom & dad can carry🤣( thats the best part) Lets see what to put on a diaper bag of a newborn • Diapers • Baby wipes • Hand sanitizer • Change of clothes • One set of socks and mittens • Baby blanket & hat • Toys like t...