The Power of PATIENCE

There are lot of definitions for the term "Patience". But i feel patience in motherhood is little different.

Patience is all about waiting,right?Do you think, the same definition goes for patience in Motherhood? Definitely, No.

Before being a MOM, there are some days, where i get angry & irritated if things dont work out easily or on time. Peace may not be there throughout the day. This was me, not having enough patience. But motherhood changed me a lot.

There will be lot of moments with child, where the chance of loss of patience is more. Remaining calm is not an easy thing for every parents.Some may react, some may yell at children and it goes on.The peace is how we deal the situation, knowing their struggles too.

Children also goes through various changes and development in their life.Some days, they will have tantrums, & some other days ,they will not be interested in foods.Like us, they will also have their own mood swings.
By being frustrated,Just understand that you are not a bad mother, you are just making eveything to be perfect for your baby above all other responsibilities.

In my case, an usual one is during meal times. She will just throw away or reject, if she is not interested. Initially , i was losing my patience very often for wasting food.But , later on, slowly, i tried to understand from their point of view. Some days, they dont like that food to eat or stomach upset. If they are hungry ,they will definitely eat the food. This is the basic one😁Situation gets little more worse, when infant become toddler.
But I learnt, everyday will not be the same with the child.

Three techniques which helped me in maintaining patience :
• Breathe in Breathe out ( it really works)
• Keep quiet for sometime or engage in some other activity.
• Try to understand the situation from the child view.

Above everything,When she come with, a smile,hug & kisses like nothing happened before, Everything is worth for that moment. My anger will suddenly disappear.

Motherhood is all about patience, which gets better by practising in daily life. Not only, it wll helps in motherhood , but also in becoming a better person.
Patience can open so many doors to peace and calm. That doesn’t mean you won’t get lost every so often but it will mean that you will have a better time holding on to it.

Practise patience, let it be the Moms new motto👍👍Stay happy & Enjoy motherhood👩‍👦.

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